Your kids, his kids, our kids…

Hearing "They're your kids" from your partner can cut deep, especially if you've been parenting together for years. Why would anyone say that? It implies the kids aren't their problem, even after being involved for so long.

If you've ever said "They're your kids," think about how it lands. Consider saying something supportive instead. It's about the tone. "They're your kids" said in anger is different from saying it with kindness, like "I'm here to support you, but it's your decision."

I'm curious about your thoughts. Are there better ways to handle this? In co-parenting, aren't they really "our kids"?

If you are having these kind of conversations and would like to stop the tension and bickering, then you can book a free call to find out how I can help!